Sunday, December 21, 2008
In the home stretch. Emmanuel is going to be here soon!
Home School is on an official Break for about 2 weeks. when we get back to school on January 5, 2009 my plan is for us to hit the ground running.
But more on that later...
God be with us during this advent. We look forward to the arrival of Jesus. His example of love, peace and justice are examples we strive to achieve in our daily lives, help us to keep reaching for them and to one day achieve them in this world according to your will
Amen.
Tuesday, December 16, 2008
O' Christmas tree!
Now, the house and hopefully our hearts are open and welcome to the comng of the Messiah, Jesus.
Friday, December 5, 2008
Tuesday, November 25, 2008
'Tis the Season (Jesus is the reason for the season!)
The Holidays are always filled with family fun, travel and Church. It is the travel part that is most difficult for us. We want to be with everyone we know and love at this special time of year. However, we have not figured out our travel plans for the Christmas season. But, like the advent traditions, we will get our plans ready, soon.
All of this preparation starts on Thursday with Thanksgiving.
Tuesday, November 18, 2008
Sunday, November 16, 2008
scatter thoughts
I can share that the home schooling is still going full speed ahead, but seemingly at half-speed most days. I am finding that with 3 girls in "school" and a 2 year old to boot that my best intentions often are put aside in order to keep the peace around here or put out the "fires" that seem to pop up on an hourly basis.
Remember the 9th grade Catechism class that I spoke about a month ago or so? well, that class has been giving me fits the last 2 sessions. That 9th grade age, 14 or 15, is a tough age. Their behavior has been more like that of a 7 or 8 year old. But I am not gonna let that get me down, I do enjoy teaching the catholic Catechism to the youth of our Parish. I just need to find a new way to present the information to this group of students in a way that will make them comfortable.
I also have a lot of studying and paper writing to do for my Religious Studies classes. I pray that the Lord gives me the strength to home school, study, write papers, and be the father my girls deserve and the husband that my wife deserves.
Amen
Wednesday, November 5, 2008
another crazy week
Thursday, October 30, 2008
The memory is a selective thing
Sunday, October 26, 2008
Today was a good day (spiritually)!
It was a good and busy day. I didn't even complain that I had to miss the Saints game today(which they won, Praise God).
Friday, October 24, 2008
Do I need an "employee review"?
This is a picture of our new dog, Jenny. She is a Golden Retriever that was abandoned near a friends house. The gilrs love her, my wife loves her, and I, the new caretaker of the dog, love her too.
On the home schooling front, it seems as if we are marching in mud, barely making progress. The last few days have been spent focusing more on 4H, new dog, swim team and any other extracurricular activity we can find. We will have to go the show back on the road. And by saying "we", I mean "me"... I guess that being used to giving and receiving employee evaluations for so long has me longing for the days of a good, honest employee review. While in the workforce getting a review from my boss always meant that I would find out if I've done a good job over the past year or not.
Being the teacher at home school is not that clear cut. If my wife gives me a review I will get defensive because we are partners not subordinates. If the kids review my work, that is just INSANE!!!
So, what I try to do is review or grade myself. That's kind of what I used to do at work. That way I'd have an idea of what my boss was about to tell me during my review. Currently I grade myself at a "C". I never get done all of the things I hope to get done in a week. I don't have "down time", so I know that I am doing stuff.
Anyway, me and the girls have a busy weekend ahead of us. It includes Soccer, LSU football(on TV of course), Church Fair and World Youth Day. I will miss the Saints game on Sunday from London because I am chaperoning the World Youth Day with our youth group.
Friday, October 17, 2008
is that right?
Now I can tell you that the price of filling up our minivan and 4 cylinder SUV has gotten to be about $140.00 a week. This is not good when you have 4 kids who all want stuff and now there isn't really extra funds to spend on frivolous items. While this is going on in society I have been teaching Emma about energy in her Science curriculum. We have discussed oil, coal, solar, wind and other forms of energy. WE have also been discussing alternative energies or fuels. She wants to invent a solar powered car or water fueled car, good luck Emma!
In our discussions about the earth and the ways we human beings make fuel we have also discussed the fact that God has created everything we use, and gave the Human race dominion over it all(Genesis 1:26, I think).
Elizabeth, our 8th grader has been interested in our lessons and usually listens in but doesn't say much. Well, yesterday we were driving in our gas guzzling van and listening to a nationally broadcast Christian radio station that presented their news as good news. The news they reported was about a gas station that thought it was selling gas for 3.49 a gallon and had a line of cars going into the street. They told how the stores owner and employees all thought they were doing some good business. Well, the jist of the story was that the employee that fixed the price on the pumps had made a mistake and misplaced his decimal and the gas station was actually selling gas for .349 a gallon. Thirty-Four Cents!!! So, on a 25 gallon tank you would spend $8.72 to fill your tank. Elizabeth, listening to the story said to me that this would be cool. At first I agreed. Then after thinking about it for a few seconds I told her that this was not a positive story. That I didn't think the Christian music station had the right perspective. Even though oil companies have been raking in billions of dollars a year on gasoline, I am fairly certain that the local gas stations don't rake in that same money. In fact, they struggle to break even I am sure. Just look at how many gas stations go out of business, do you think if they were real money makers they would go out of business so regularly?
Anyway, I told Liz that I thought that a true Christian, even though they didn't like the price of gas being $3.49/gallon, would let the station attendant know that there is a problem at the pump. I know this would be difficult to do. It would be easier to go along with the rest of the crowd and in effect "steal" some gas without the station being able to legally do anything about it. But as a true Christian we are taught that honesty and integrity are some very important ideals, and the action of taking advantage of the gas station to save money is not honest and in my opinion kind of "sneaky"!
I am mostly disappointed in the radio station for reporting this as a positive story rather than using it as a chance to teach some Christian morality and honesty. I'll still listen to the station, after all they are the best option when it comes to music around here, I'd rather the kids sing along with Christian songs that with the local hip-hop station. I just pray that they will actually take heed to what they profess to do, spread the gospel message with their broadcast. Unfortunately, they didn't this time.
Tuesday, October 14, 2008
Battle of the "bulge"
For those of you who have known me for more than a couple of years you know that I have struggled with my weight since Kindergarten. A couple of years ago, after my illness, which I am sure had something to do with being overweight, I actually went on the Atkins diet and went from 270 lbs to 200 lbs. This was an achievement I was very proud of. I thought I will never get back above 210 again. well, it has been a couple of years since then and I have crept back in the 240 range. This is quite depressing. I did not want to go back on Atkins because there are so many people that have told me that while Atkins will help drop weight in a hurry that the long term effects of a high fat, protein laden diet will have serious long term effects, I am willing to "risk it". I want to be able to fit in my "skinny" jeans, yes ladies, men do have "skinny" clothes. But we will never admit that fact face to face. Anyway, my new goal is to drop 60 pounds and be at 180 pounds by Mardi Gras.
Monday, October 6, 2008
It's been a long time...
Anyway, many things have happened over the last 10 days. We have had swim meets, soccer matches, Vice-presidential debates(yes I had the kids watch the debate), it was our current events lesson for the week. We visited the home school group's "park day" on Friday, it was alot of fun, just wish I had been warned about the amount of sand I'd be bringing home.
My main thought today is, the weekends and how they lead into the week. Our weekends like many other families weekends are super busy. All of the children are involved in some sort of activity that usually culminates in a weekend activity. This is fine, and I enjoy the motion and energy required to do things such as swim meets, soccer games, youth group, etc. I don't like the fact that I don't get enough rest on the weekends, which leads into an unenergetic Monday morning. In fact, I am hoping that this posting is making sense. So far, this morning the kids are doing better than me, which is a good thing. This is keeping me going.
I also teach 9th grade Catechism on Sunday mornings. This has been a great ministry for me. I enjoy teaching our Catholic faith to kids who I judge don't get catechized at home. I wish they did and our Sunday morning lessons were more of a review, but that is not the case. It is difficult to get 9th grade students to focus at 9 am on Sunday mornings, But now that I have students at home all week and go through the same thing with my own kids on a daily basis, it is a little easier to deal with it on Sunday mornings.
This weeks lesson was on The Trinity. Most of the kids had a fairly good understanding of the Trinity. By that I mean they knew the three persons of the Trinity. I guided them to understand that what separates the Christian religions from other monotheistic religions such as Judaism and Islam is the belief in one God, but as three separate person. And that we recall this belief every time we pray or enter Church for mass by doing the Sign of the Cross. When we are praying or recalling our baptism by dipping our hands in the holy water at church upon entering the church and signing ourselves in the name of the father, and of the Son, and of the Holy Spirit", we acknowledge the presence and importance of all 3 of these person in our one God. I am certain that the kids understood this, and if they take one thing away from class yesterday it was that they have 3 people in one God who have their back when times are good and when times get tough.
The home school has a busy week ahead of it. So, I pray that we can actually be steadfast in our work, and that everything we do can glorify our awesome creator(God), redeemer(Jesus), and sanctifier(Holy Spirit),
Amen
Thursday, September 25, 2008
Multi-tasking is not for me! But it will be
Sunday, September 21, 2008
The weekend is over, already.
I have about 9 chapters to read before Saturday for Church History, and a few Chapters that I really should re-read for Catholic Morality. A tall order when I spend most of the day teaching home school lessons and running my kids to their extra curricular activities including coaching Elani's soccer team. My prime reading/study time is late night when the kids are in bed. That is also the best time for me to prepare lesson plans for home school. There are not enough hours in the night! My days have enough hours to do what I need with the children, it is the night time that I need to lay the ground work for everything I do, and believe it or not, I do get tired. I try not to show it but I do.
Anyway, most of the lesson plans are done for tomorrow, my thing is that I was thinking today that maybe I should plan for the week and have a one on one session with each child/student on Monday mornings to kind of map out the week. I will try this and then keep up with the kids to make sure they get the weekly work done every week. I am thinking that this may allow me to spend more time focusing on what the girls need me to focus on and less time reviewing stuff that they are pretty good at. I'll try this for a week or two and then reevaluate. I'll keep the progress of this technique posted.
One last thing that is on my mind. I enjoy teaching 9th grade catechism at Church. This is my 5th year of teaching 9th grade. We had our first class of the year and the kids listened to nearly every word I said. I Was glad the students paid attention. I pray for each of them to find and know God every day. I truly believe that they know that I want that for each of them.
May God bless each person that reads my blog. My screen saver is a quote from Psalm 27 "the Lord is my light and my salvation". I pray that everyone that I come into contact can say these words with conviction. A.M.D.G (for the greater glory of God)
Thursday, September 18, 2008
It's like Christmas, but no garland!
The remainder of Elani's 2nd grade curriculum came in today. Elani now has math, science, social studies and a home catechism course available at her disposal. She was excited, she tore into the Catholic Heritage Curriculum box like it was a Christmas gift on Christmas morning. We got started with the first math lesson right away. The math was easy to jump right into, the others will require me to at least have some sort of plan of action, which I must do tonight. The first 2 pictures here of Elani are of her working on her math.
I also took a few pictures of Elizabeth doing her Social Studies which is a survey course on World History, with an emphasis on the Catholic viewpoint on history. She did an American History last year from a Catholic perspective, that was very good.
Emma scored an "A" on her 1st big science test today. I was very excited for her. Science has been a struggle for her in the past, probably because there was a kind of incongruence between what she learned at public school and what she learns at home, her parents different twists on some topics. She was left with a "who do I believe ?" feeling. Now that she is learning science from a true Catholic Christian perspective and is free to learn in this way, she is much more comfortable in Science. Also, she told me today that the one on one aspect of studying her lessons with me actively during the lesson enables her to be interested and to follow along with the materials. That was cool for me to hear. I know that I am having a positive effect on my children and their education!!!!
Finally Elie has to be involved in some way. So, today during Elie's math lesson we let her draw on the dry erase board after we were done using it for learning her lesson. So, during her Elani's independent math work, the dry erase board was free for Elie to use.
I was able to get alot of teaching done in what seemed like a short time today, which has me wondering if I actually taught as much as I think I did. Of course, the girls all tell me I did, they love to finish "early" and would not presume to tell me that I didn't teach as well as they needed. That would set them up for another round of Mr. Wallace's teaching.
I pray that I taught them as well as they needed today. In fact, my prayer every school day is to be a great Father for them, like St. Joseph was for Jesus, and to be a great teacher for them like countless saints have been through the ages. It is times I get an inkling that this prayer is working when one of the kids thanks me like Emma did today and tells me "thanks for spending one on one time with me". What parent would not want to hear that from one of their kids? no matter what the subject or reason.
I also gotta say that I love my wife. I try to love her with an Ephesians kind of love. She has been working hard, and I have not been as patient with her as I should be. I promise to try harder to be the support that she needs.
Tuesday, September 16, 2008
back for more
The kids are all happy to be getting back to a routine. Emma and Liz have decided that doing their school work in their room is a quieter atmosphere than the kitchen where they hear Elie whining the whole time they school. I, the teacher, am keeping a close eye on this situation, for I know that what looks like the best of intentions to be in a quiet learning environment can also turn into a little talking hideaway. And yes, there is a TV in that room that is supposed to be off during the day...
Elani is doing well too. she is enjoying doing her school work under my watchful eye. She is still a little bit defiant, but is getting better at following directions. we'll see how she does when the 2nd half of her curriculum comes in at the end of the week. Both Elani an I are looking forward to her new Math and Science books to come in as soon as possible.
We have not only restarted the schoolwork but have also begun swim team at the YMCA, soccer league, dance lessons and Catechism. So, we are now in full swing. Please pray that I can do all of the home school stuff as well as the extra curricular's and keep my sanity all at the same time.
I have also started my own personal reading for my Religious Studies Institute classes. So, late nights have been and will continue to be my routine.
Wednesday, September 10, 2008
Lights, Camera, Action!!!!
Friday, September 5, 2008
Evacuated
Tuesday, September 2, 2008
No electricity means no school
Steve
Friday, August 29, 2008
Another week in the books
Well we had quite a busy week of schooling. As you can see in these pictures the kids were busy all week, and therefore, so was I. I did not post pictures of all the "after school" activities, such as ballet, hip hop, and jazz dance as well as soccer, swim team, and eventually they will start Catechism... although they get quite a bit of that at home, they want to go to class to be with the other kids they know from church.
Home school with the girls has been much more "manageable" than I thought. We do have our rough spots. But 95% of the time it runs very smoothly. And the kids do get alot out of the 1 on 1 time with their teacher, me.
Some highlights of the week have been: Emma built her Terrarium, and has been observing it daily. She thinks of the toads in the tank as her "pets" and even Elani has been writing down her observations of the tank... future scientists!! Then there is Elani, she has done well with everything she has been assigned, and she is quite creative when it comes to her learning. In one of the pictures of her she is sitting at the table writing her spelling words in a pan of flour. she had fun, and after that got a 100% on her spelling test. ( maybe the sensory part of her task helped), oh BTW it was her idea to study the words with flour. I should have taken a picture of her trying to clean it up, she somehow got flour everywhere. But that was OK. And then Elizabeth did a science experiment this week wit TUMS and water and vinegar. She was bummed we did not see some sort of explosion with the tums. We'll have to do the Mentos in diet coke thing I guess, she'll be happy with that!
8th grade work has been tough on her, so we take our time, I told her today that at our current pace, her school year will go through the summer. Maybe that will help to pick up her pace.
Elie managed to get a hold of the new macbook laptop and soon after I took this picture of her playing "webkinz", she managed to somehow mess up the computer, so momma Mary had to get the computer guy at work to fix it. I think he just had to change 1 command, but we couldn't figure it out.
The upcoming week is kind of up in the air. I was planning to give them a very light Labor Day, but Hurricane Gustav may have plans to lighten their days for a few days. We'll see how that goes.
As for me, I start my Religious Studies Institute (RSI) classes on Saturday 9/6, so I need to start getting my reading done for the first classes. i am taking Morality, Church History, and A study on the Catechism! this should be fun stuff for me!! Bring on the Theology!!!!
Monday, August 25, 2008
Terrarium ( said like Metallica's Sanatarium)
Here she is adding a layer of soil over her layer of gravel. We forgot the sand that we meant to use between the gravel and soil.
Emma planted a fern, and another plant we bought at the nursery at wal mart. We also dug up a few things from our yard.
This is what the terrarium looked like when it was done being set up. The science experiment that we are using said that we could put a small animal or two in the terrarium, to give it the true "ecosystem" feel. So, Emma and I went frog hunting. (sorry no pictures of that). We ended up with two toads. At least I think they are toads. So they now live in our "new world".
And finally, here is a shot of Emma standing next to her terrarium.(notice her Bull Frog swim team shirt) It was a fun experiment and I am hoping that Emma does some good observations as prescribed in her science book. I am looking for some "Darwinian" observations from Emma. I'll keep you posted.
Elizabeth also did a science experiment today, but it was on a much smaller scale, at least in my eyes. But she is not as impressed with the scientific method as Emma is so I do not know that she is getting all that much from Science as Emma.
Saturday, August 23, 2008
In action!
Wednesday, August 20, 2008
Cold Coffee??
That reminds me, the title of this post is cold coffee. I drink 4 or 5 cups a day of coffee. I like my coffee to be somewhere between hot and really warm, call me crazy. Anyway, every time I have poured myself a fresh cup of java this week, I get called for help from another "student". So, I have not finished a cup of warm coffee this whole week. Not really a funny story, but hey this is non-fiction, it is hit or miss.
Now, I have to do the really important stuff of the day, answer the question that Elani just asked me, "what are we eating tonight dad?". Let me go look in the freezer, then the checkbook to see if we have money to eat out, then in the freezer again, then the wallet, etc....
well, I hope that I give a good impression of my experience the last few days. It really has been great.
Monday, August 18, 2008
Home School?
We did it though.. I am starting this blog to kind of keep up with my feelings about our not so new radical lifestyle that has been enhanced by home schooling all of the gilrs. For the last 2 years I have home schooled our oldest daughter. So, it only seemed natural to bring them all home. Besides I am fairly certain that I heard God whispering "bring them home and educate them", all summer long. So, it made sense to do it, and after 1 day, I am pleased with the decision.
Now, sllep and then day 2!!!